The growth of children is inseparable from the company of our parents, so we give children company, but is that effective? Only when parents are willing to accompany their children, are good at accompanying them, and effectively accompany their children, can they understand their children better, meet the physical and psychological needs of their children to the greatest extent, and let their children feel the care and love of their parents. Effective companionship means that when accompanying the child, the father or mother wholeheartedly interacts with the child, without distractions. High-quality companionship is not as complicated as we think.
01 Put down the phone and concentrate on company
Some parents feel that they don’t have time to spend with their children, or they don’t know what to do. Sometimes, parents don’t have to do anything to accompany their children. For example, they can go for a walk for dinner or take a nap together, and the children will feel very good. But parents must pay attention that when they are with their children, it is most important to put down their mobile phones and work, and concentrate on accompanying their children.
02 Take advantage of cozy meal times
Eating is a very warm time for a family to be together, very loving. We can talk about what happens every day together and increase the parent-child relationship.
03 Unleash your child’s creativity with toys
Playing with toys can improve children's hands-on ability and cultivate the development of fine motor skills. Educational toys help to improve and expand children's intellectual level. In the process of playing, parents can participate first, play with children, and let children With a sense of achievement, children will be more creative.
04 Play games together
All family members play small games together, such as guessing riddles, hide-and-seek, playing with cars, etc., which can delight the family atmosphere and make children happier and more confident.
05 Parent-child reading
1. Watch more children and smile more Every time a story is told, parents use eye contact to communicate with their children, sometimes a small smile, sometimes an encouraging look. When children feel this communication and interaction, they are more receptive to you and more easily integrated into the context of the story.
2. Physical acceptance is important Reading picture books is an excellent opportunity to improve the quality of parents and children, which will make them completely relax, and people’s ability to accept things in a state of complete relaxation will be greatly improved.
3. Move if you can Movement is a child’s nature. The picture book itself is rather quiet. The balance point to solve this problem is to find the moving point in the book and let the child move. We can work with children to imitate the animals in the book, imitate their speech, imitate their actions. Make the whole process dynamic.
06 Outdoor sports
It is a good way to take children to do more outdoor sports and get close to nature. Bring children into nature, go to parks, lakes, lawns, and let children see, listen, smell and touch this colorful world , Share your feelings with your child, which will help your child's growth a lot.