“Bad Habits You Can’t Ignore”

01 interrupt the conversation

Your child may be eager to tell you something or ask you certain questions, but allowing him to interrupt your conversation won't help teach your child to be considerate of others, much less how to behave when you're busy. Pass the time by yourself. The result will be that he thinks he has the right to attract attention and cannot stand any setbacks.

Solution:

Next time before you're on the phone or chatting with a friend, tell your child to keep quiet and not disturb you. Set him up for an activity or let him play with a toy he doesn't usually play with. If he's pestering you while you're talking, you can point to the chair and let him sit there quietly and wait patiently for you to finish. Telling him later that interfering with others won't get him what he wants.

02 aggressive behavior

Some children, especially boys, like to beat people or push, pinch and bite when playing with their peers. If parents let it go, when he grows up in the future, this kind of bad behavior will affect his interpersonal relationship. Children who advocate violence are often lonely and difficult to focus on their studies.

Solution:

Parents should reflect on whether they usually like to beat and scold their children. Don't disturb the child. When a child has aggressive behavior, parents must stop and tell the child: "It's wrong to hit people. We can't be such a person." Only by properly guiding the child to vent their emotions can they change the bad habit of hitting people. Children still make mistakes and can be punished with small punishments, but parents must lead by example and influence their children subtly.

Pretend not to hear you

Put away toys, get your own water and drink When you remind your child to do something he doesn't like to do once, twice, three times, or even four times, and he still doesn't seem to hear it, you can't ignore it. Because the message passed down like this is to ignore the instructions of adults and it doesn't matter. Reminding your child again and again is training him to wait for prompts without paying attention to your first command. If you allow your child to continue this behavior, your child is likely to become defiant and extremely controlling.

Solution:

Instead of talking to the child on the other side of the house, go up to him and tell him what to do. Asking him to look at you and answering “yes” while talking, stroking your child on the shoulder, calling his name, turning off the music on the TV, etc. will all help get your child’s attention. If the child is still disobedient, tell him what the consequences are. In short, parents should try their best not to give in, otherwise. The child will continue this bad habit.

04 tantrum

Many children are greedy for watching TV, greedy for snacks, and do not sleep until late. Once their parents stop them, they will not listen to them, and they will get angry in all kinds of ways. Some children even rolled on the floor and cried. If parents compromise with the child's bad temper, the child will have to make progress and repeatedly "blackmail" the parents for a long time. The child's temper will become more and more selfish.

Solution:

When the child wants to be angry, he must clearly tell him: "It's useless to be angry, don't be angry and then talk well." Then the parents should leave his sight in time and let the child make fun of himself. Wait until the child calms down before talking to him. For example, talk about requirements. What situation can satisfy them, this can help children change their temper. Don't coax your child when he's crying, it often doesn't make any sense.

05 exaggerate the facts

It doesn't matter how bragging about Haikou's behavior, but be wary of your child's dishonesty. Experts believe: "If the child understands that it is easy to beautify himself by saying famine. You can avoid letting him do those things he doesn't like to do, and let him get rid of the predicament of the river disaster. It becomes a natural thing.

Solution:

When the child is talking about Xiaohuang, sit next to him and tell him straight-forward that if he is always harassing, people will not believe his words, just like the story of "The Wolf is Coming", the child of Shahuang is in the middle of the wolf. When he came, no one believed him anymore and helped him. See what the child's motives are, and don't let his little jokes continue to succeed.