Under normal circumstances, when the baby is two years old, he can eat, drink, walk, and talk. At this time, they begin to have their own consciousness, so the baby often makes trouble with parents and mothers. Not willing wear clothes, no Eat, etc., how should young parents at this time carry out primary education for their children?
In fact, it is the parents who should be educated first. First, consider whether you had a similar experience when you were a child. Your parents didn’t allow you to do many things, but you do it yourself. Babies now are just like us in the past, so we must give them full respect and understanding. We must not force them to do this or not. It is better to let them choose and learn to choose by themselves.
For the child’s requirements, appropriate “conditions” can be exchanged, and don’t blindly meet the child’s various requirements, which will only cultivate the bad habits that he can get without paying. For example, it is windy when going to the supermarket, but the child does not want to wear a hat. At this time, parents can trade with their children. Mom and Dad promise to take the baby out to play, but the baby has to promise Mom and Dad to wear a hat.
Learn to let go. Although the child is really young and has no real judgment on many things, please let go of your big hand that may affect your baby’s own growth. Even if parents do not agree with many of the child’s actions, if the child will not be harmed (physically) by it, then let go of holding her hand and let her do it herself, to choose, even if it hits a wall.
Learn to accept everything about your child, even if it’s not good, or in your opinion, don’t feel very distressed because your baby keeps saying no to you, you know, that’s when she starts to build self-awareness, It means that she is starting to have her own judgment. You should be happy for her. As long as the baby is healthy, give her the most space to try, don’t interrupt everything, and don’t feel that you have failed.